Women, especially Nigerian women are not usually very open about their bedroom likes and disliked. This does not mean they are feeling every move the guy makes.
NaijaQueen.com asked 10 women what their biggest bedroom turn-off is, on the condition of anonymity. See their responses below.
Weirdly Silent: “OMG! My boyfriend can be so annoying in bed. It is so uncomfortable when I am the one doing all the moaning. One day, I decided to try and stay quiet too, he did not even notice. I have no idea what he likes because he absolutely makes no sound.”
One Position: “My dear boyfriends loves do ggy style and do ggy style alone. Now, when it’s S3x time, I just bend over and let him do his thing. He is not so creative and I am bored most of the time”
Too much positions: “My man will change positions every 20 seconds. Even if I try to moan “I am cumming, I am cumming!” just so he will keep going, he will suddenly change positions and ruin the whole thing.”
Rough handling B.oobs: “One guy I met home with had this terrible habit of grabbing and squeezing my B.oobs. They hurt so bad. Needless to say, I never went back.”
Po.rn star impersonation: “I know our Naija boys love Po.rn. But my boyfriend always pretends to be some Po.rn star in bed and he expects me to do the same. He acts and talks like he is being taped. He even suggested we get videotaped once. I might break up with him.”
Anal without consent: “Why does every boy I meet try to stick their pe nis in my anus? Sometimes I wonder if they think we don’t notice. Not Se.xy unless you ask for permission.”
No patience: “My fiancé has no patience. He never does foreplay long enough for me to be truly ready. And he never sticks with oral long enough for me to or gasm. He is always in a hurry to reach the next step. It can get really annoying.”
The or gasm interrogation: “My boyfriend is always asking me if I came. Even during S3x, he will keep checking in again and again. It is very distracting. And it even stops me from achieving or gasm.”
Biting: “He bites me. My earlobe, lips, ni pples, everywhere. He thinks it is Se.xy. It is not.”
Terrible oral: “I had this work colleague that promised me he will give me the best oral if I agreed to have S3x with him. He was a big disappointment at the end of the day. He was terrible eating me out. He kept poking at my va gina with his tongue and even tried to use his teeth. Ouch! “